On Netflix now… The Mask You Live In follows boys and young men as they struggle to stay true to themselves while negotiating America’s narrow definition of masculinity. A MUST WATCH.
The Sexual Revolution
Happy belated International Women’s Day! Here locally, in Seattle, we did a Vigil and Night walk on March 8, 2017 for My-Linh Nguyen, a 45 year old Vietnamese mother and nail salon worker who was killed by an attacker, near her home on the Warsaw street December 15th 2016. The walk was a symbolic act to…
Repercussions of Sexual Repression
It’s been a few months since my last entry. Now that sexual abuse is not a part of my daily life, I seem to find other things to grasp my attention. However, I did make a promise, after being sexually harassed for the third time in Mexico, in one year, that I would make…
Rabbit Hole
I would like to start off by noting that as we know, men/boys experience sexual violence by other men and also by other women. The following research states data that mostly refers to women being victimized by men; however, I would like to make this very clear. THE POINT OF THIS HOLISTIC RESEARCH IS…
Why I am starting this blog…
It has been 16 years now since my mother left my step father. Eight years with a man she trusted, loved, honored and laughed with, however only meeting one of his many, versatile masks. I met another. He bought my friends and me cigarettes at the store when we were too young to buy them. He…
The Holistic Investigation 