Documentary that backs The Holistic Investigation

On Netflix now… The Mask You Live In follows boys and young men as they struggle to stay true to themselves while negotiating America’s narrow definition of masculinity. A MUST WATCH. Advertisements

The Sexual Revolution

Happy belated International Women’s Day! Here locally, in Seattle, we did a Vigil and Night walk on March 8, 2017 for My-Linh Nguyen, a 45 year old Vietnamese mother and nail salon worker who was killed by an attacker, near her home on the Warsaw street December 15th 2016. The walk was a symbolic act to…

Repercussions of Sexual Repression

  It’s been a few months since my last entry. Now that sexual abuse is not a part of my daily life, I seem to find other things to grasp my attention. However, I did make a promise, after being sexually harassed for the third time in Mexico, in one year, that I would make…

Rabbit Hole

  I would like to start off by noting that as we know, men/boys experience sexual violence by other men and also by other women. The following research states data that mostly refers to women being victimized by men; however, I would like to make this very clear. THE POINT OF THIS HOLISTIC RESEARCH IS…

Why I am starting this blog…

It has been 16 years now since my mother left my step father. Eight years with a man she trusted, loved, honored and laughed with, however only meeting one of his many, versatile masks. I met another. He bought my friends and me cigarettes at the store when we were too young to buy them. He…